Hi, it's me Benny. The Ravishing and Gorgeous one (I'm playing but forreal I am stunning lol) I'm back sharing some blog post I read so you can enjoy all this cool shit too. So yeah click all the links you see and check em out.
HOW TO DEAL WITH TEMPORARY RELATIONSHIPS - WHITNEY ABIGAIL
I don’t know if I have any temporary relationships. I’d have to sit down and actually think about it. I guess I don’t care if I do or not. If I don’t talk to a person often that I used to holla at 24/7 all the time ain’t no love lost. They just got shit to do just like I got shit to do. We’ll meet back up when it’s time to. I think where people fuck up at is thinking that there’s some type animosity because you’ve gone your separate ways or they create a beef that wasn’t there to begin with. If it ends it ends. If it don’t it don’t. This article shares my feelings.
WHY I BLOG - KEMI AKINBOYEWA
You wanna know why I blog? Besides it helping me to be on the Breakfast Club and joan on all my enemies for an hour straight while drinking champagne at 5am with my shades on next to Angela Yee and trying to put one of my homies on her. I blog to help people. That’s it. If my thoughts help you in anyway that is my goal. To help as many people as I can. Check out why Kemi blogs. She has a lot more reasons than me so I’m sure she’s more entertaining and insightful.
HOW TO STAY TURNED ON BY LIFE - SHAI BUTTA
I fucks with Butta Blog and Ifucks with this article. Now I may not need the article because I’m turned on as fuck by life right now. Life a baddie right now and looking as good as a pan of baked macaroni and I got it cuffed. Life ain’t shit but a big remy bottle to me. Here are some tips on how to stay turned on by life from Shai below.
HOW I BALANCE MY FULL TIME JOB & MY SIDE HUSTLE - TEEFAH TALKS
I actually like my 9 to 5 job so I don’t trip for real and they actually encourage my side hustles so that makes it a whole lot tougher to hate where I work so for me to have my side hustles and my job work in harmony is not that difficult for me personally but I know there’s someone out there that can’t STAND their full time jobs and don’t know how to balance what they love to do and their job. Well Teefah got you.
BLACK GIRLS HAVE ANXIETY TOO - CHANTAL
I have anxiety especially after all I’ve been through the last few years and I felt this post because people who don’t understand try to sweep it under the rug instead of trying to help you or hear you out. Now marijuana is great but….yeah that’s it. Marijuana is great. Check out this very important blog post for all my black queens from Chantal.
CLOSURE: NECESSARY OR OVERRATED? - NEFARIOUS BLISS
I think closure is pointless. I won’t make time for it. Closure is an excuse for us to be in each other’s presence again in hopes of something magical happening. Well it won’t. I don’t need it. I’ll just go on living my life. Now I’m not heartless but the reason I have that approach to closure is because I’m really big on just moving on to the next thing. Okay this situation happened. It’s over. I took an L. I’ll accept it like a man and go heal. I can’t heal if I'm worried about closure. Here’s a interesting post about closure and since I’m the president of The Lawrence Hive I thought you should check it out.
HOW DETACHMENT CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE FOR THE BETTER - KEMI BELLA
One of my favorite writers and human beings wrote this post. I’m always detached by nature maybe it’s because I’m a Scorpio. Yes I am crazy (The good crazy) and yes I’m very guarded. After a few relationships (that I don’t even really remember anymore) I just remember shutting down opening up to anyone just out of fear of being hurt but now today I just don’t give a fuck. You hurt me, then that’s one less person I don’t need around and I’ll go on about my business. Anyway detachment can help and I’ll let Bella explain it to you better than I can.